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Getting engaged in Tulum at sunrise

I text “I’m sorry” from bed, but the text never sent. Curled up in soft sheets with a new appreciation for luxury, I felt a sickness I hadn’t felt before coupled with exhaustion. The queasiness of Cuba lingered on and my first night in Tulum was not as I imagined. The waves were pounding right outside our room at El Pez Hotel, and I just left my boyfriend Mark at dinner when the food arrived. His expression when I stood up was one I had never seen, like a combination of shock, disbelief, and disappointment. “I’m so sorry. I have to go lay down. I feel so ill.” How could I be crawling back to bed to lie down while music flowed and fresh grilled octopus just arrived in this rustic gorgeous breezy restaurant in Tulum, Mexico?

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

The next morning the blinds were pulled open to wake me up for sunrise. The constant birds diving outside our room with the pounding surf was hypnotic, and I longed to not move and stare at the sea. Mark had repeatedly talked about seeing the sunrise the second morning in Tulum, so I knew this was important. I mustered every ounce of energy to throw on my three quarter length sweats and the only other warm clothing I brought for two weeks, a black throw wrap.

Can you find us scaling the rock? Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico. (Photo credit: Melissa Mercado Photography)

Mark held my hand as we jumped onto the sand and started towards the rocks outside El Pez. As my eyes started to open through the cold blustery wind I noticed Mark looked so nice, especially for a freezing sunrise. He was not in surf shorts. “OMG! You look like you are going to dinner!” I screamed. This was the first time I wasn’t in something cute. As we climbed the rocks with the sea hugging us on all sides, I saw the jagged dark outline of shadows on the top of the rock. My mind was still cascading with Cuban images. I screached, “Is that a dead cat?” Thankfully no swollen dead cat like we saw on the streets of Havana, but a beautiful assortment of roses with colorful pillows, and a tea and coffee setup. The poem Mark had written me last was laying on the top of the rock with a frame of a photo I had taken at El Pez that said Melissa and Mark, February 18, 2017.

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

Tears started to stream down my face because I thought we might be getting officially “hinged.” I had hoped, but knew there was no way he could bring a diamond to Cuba or Mexico in our bags. Great accepting trusting calm love had taken a long time and could the man I adored and only known for a little over a year be ready to commit to spend a life with me? My doubts about long lasting unconditional love were always creeping. They were there even after I heard “I love you” within a month.

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

We held each other on top of that jagged uncomfortable rock as the wind whipped, the waves fiercely crashed, and pelicans flew in unison while unexpectedly diving deep for sustenance. As we waited for the sun to rise, we changed positions, laughed, kissed, kept each other warm, and tried to sip tea, but it was so windy it was impossible. As the colors started to stream and pop out from the horizon, Mark changed positions on that rock and had me stand up, and that is when he got down on one knee. Happy tears continued and all I remember saying was, “You know I would have married you after the first month.”

Those beautiful words on that rock have faded, but not in my heart. More tears of joy continued that sweet morning, and we kissed and held each other surrounded by the violent but romantic sea surrounded by dive bombing birds. Mark slipped on my finger a wooden ring with turquoise and silver that he designed with wood from my birth month. “You got me a coconut ring!” I kept saying. A perfect travel ring for my wandering heart.

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Poem #4

When I saw you I fell in love

and you smiled because you knew

The moment I looked into your eyes I was lost,

and would never be the same again.

I have loved you for 460 days,

and I will love you for a million more.

Little did I know Mark had hired a photographer (Melissa Mercado Photography from Playa del Carmen) who documented our whole morning from the shore like the paparazzi. After our sunrise, I freshened up and threw on a white cover-up for a fun little photo shoot at El Pez, part of the Colibri Boutique Hotels. We toasted champagne with our photographer Melissa and thanked her for capturing our engagement. Now I call this trip our “engagemoon”.

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

Time sails on so fast. How can we hold on to a moment forever? I hope to keep that memory alive by writing it here. It’s been a little over a month and I want our engagement morning to happen again and again and again.

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

A couple weeks later when we returned home from Tulum, Mark slipped a sparkly ring on my finger at sunset in Malibu, another ocean where our hearts beat with the rhythmic waves. Home.

 

 

 

“She knew she loved him when ‘home’ went from being a place to a person.”

Photo credit: Melissa Mercado Photography

Mark + Melissa Sunrise Proposal, El Pez, Tulum, Riviera Maya, Quintana Roo, Mexico

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thank you to El Pez (a Colibri Boutique Collection Hotel) for making our stay so incredibly memorable.

8 Responses to “Getting engaged in Tulum at sunrise”

  1. Jennifer LaCorte

    SOOO Darling!! I’m so excited for you! What an amazing memory for you to cherish together forever!! CONGRATS, my friend!!!!

    I knew you would find LOVE!!!

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  2. Jo Pessin, a thoughtful way

    Oh my G-d Melissa! This was absolutely beautiful and so glad you did document it for all of us to enjoy— what an amazing memory and the pictures of you both there in that magical setting are breath taking! Wishing you a lifetime of love together! XO

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  3. Nancy Anderson

    Melissa-you are such a gifted and talented writer. This lovely story brought tears to my eyes. I think you should write a book. Of course, I knew Mark was this tender from the first time I met him as a baby-still so sweet!

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  4. Melissa Mercado

    My Heart SWOOONS!!!! So many congratulations you two love birds. You give hope to all of us solo-wandering dragonflies flittering in the magic of life. Big hugs and thank you from the bottom of my heart for allowing me to share in your magic, if just for a brief magical moment. Much love, light and soooo much laughter!

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